Any woman who has posted up a profile on an BBW online dating site probably knows all too well that she can end up expecting to attract quite a few weirdos along the way. While you may not be able to eliminate them altogether…
Any plus sized woman who has posted up a profile on an plus size dating site probably knows all too well that she can end up expecting to attract quite a few weirdos along the way. While you may not be able to eliminate them altogether, you can keep them away as much as possible by doing a few things. One thing that weirdos seem to have in common is that there are some traits about certain women that seem to keep them at bay. Overall, plus size dating sites can be a good way to meet a man, as long as you are able to attract the right ones and hopefully repel all of the wrong ones.
There is a reason why the weirdos seem to like online dating sites. Probably has a lot to do with the fact that they can choose to hide what they want to and they don’t have to deal with face to face communication. Knowing these two things can actually help you repel those guys and give you more room to attract the ones that you want to attract.
Here is some advice that can help you out with plus size dating sites:
1) Most of the time, you can repel a lot of the wrong guys if your profile shows that you are a confident woman.
The really flaky guys seem to try to scope out women that lack confidence. So, if in your profile it were to say something like, you are tired of meeting all the wrong guys and getting hurt by them… you are pretty much announcing that you may lack confidence. On the other hand if you come across a little stronger and more assertive, then you are not going to get nearly as much negative attention.
2) Don’t be afraid to take things really slow with a guy you meet online.
This is another way to keep the wrong guys away from you. Most of them are going to want an easy mark, so the more time you take to get friendly and warm up to them, the more likely it is that they will move on to someone else. The faster that you move with a guy you meet online, the more likely it is that you will end up attracting one of the ones that you do not want to attract. Time is a good way to kind of screen out the weirdos and you should use that to your advantage.